The organizer of a big finance women’s conference was asking how to ensure that men attended. The head of D&I of a large automotive company was trying to get a largely male leadership team to buy into his gender balance strategy. The head of a legal sector association was trying to get the sector to gender balance law firm partnerships. How, they were all asking me, do they get men engaged, convinced, and on board?
The short answer? Turn balance into a business issue run by leaders. After 15 years working with mostly male executive teams and CEOs across the globe and across sectors and cultures, here’s what I learned are three simple steps to engaging men in building better gender balance.
1. Don’t call them “champions”
A lot of women’s networks and women’s conferences are trying to bring men into the debate by awarding them congratulatory titles and awards. This is understandable since women are increasingly impatient with the idea that “.”
The trouble with this strategy is that men then become a range of mildly heroic beings, with titles like “champions” and “allies,” slightly military terms to masculinize the otherwise suspect notion of appearing to be a feminist. This is embarrassing for women, as it puts them in the rather traditional role of rewarding good male behavior with female admiration and applause. It’s also embarrassing for men, write W. Brad Johnson and David G. Smith, as “these efforts often reveal reluctance, if not palpable anxiety among targeted men. Sexism is a system, and while it’s a system that privileges men, it also polices male behavior.”
U2 rockstar Bono, who was named Glamour magazine’s “Man of the Year” in 2016, in TIME magazine. “It seemed obvious to me,” he wrote, “that the sex who created the problem might have some responsibility for undoing it. Men can’t step back and leave it to women alone to clean up the mess we’ve made and are still making.”
The unintended consequence of this well-meaning approach is that it makes gender balance seem like a crusade requiring brave champions and heroes. This leaves the rest in enemy territory, likely to mutter resentfully against their singled-out colleagues, what Smith and Johnson refer to as the Wimp Penalty or The Pedestal Effect北京快3. While male role models are absolutely necessary in getting other men engaged, it’s worth treading carefully into this terrain.
Rather than making male support for gender balance the exception, the goal is to make it the norm. How do you normalize and mainstream gender balance among…everyone? By using existing male-dominated hierarchies. has shown gender balanced companies are twice as likely to have had senior leadership commitment with balance as a top business priority. It’s about getting all leaders to reframe the issue for all men and managers.
Reframe: Gender balance delivers and returns. If leaders are accountable to shareholders and stakeholders, gender balance is part of their mandate. Let’s call them … leaders. Period.
2. Make it a business issue, not a diversity dimension
If you’re framing gender balance as , a women’s issue, or a moral principle (or even because you have a daughter and you’ve seen the light), you’re setting yourself up to fail — at least in terms of making it a shared responsibility for everyone. Leaders are often tempted to argue gender balance as a moral imperative. But in the corporate setting, if you want to get a broad base of support for balance from men, the business case is a more effective frame. (Many female colleagues of mine roll their eyes at this, suggesting it is terribly passé. But it’s news to most leaders I work with.)
An enlightening series of case studies comes from one of the more male-dominated organizations on the planet — the military. Robert Egnell and coauthors, in 北京快3, describe how different national militaries around the world have introduced gender balance. The lessons they draw are readily transferable to the corporate world’s efforts to engage their dominant male majorities.
北京快3A key success factor, he explains, is how “the process is introduced and managed in a way that speaks to the core tasks of military organizations.” While “the most challenging task is to gain access to the organization to begin the work. This is closely related to the issue of how the process and its aims are described and communicated.” He says that a feminist-driven, rights-based approach may be less effective than more “instrumental arguments of operational effectiveness.” Because “equality is simply not perceived as having anything to do with military operations.” Nor, I would argue, is equality yet perceived in many men’s minds as having anything to do with business results. That is one of the key roles of leaders. To make the link explicit and credible.
Companies whose balancing initiatives are more than three times more effective than those focusing only on women. But male managers take balance seriously only if their bosses do. This simple truth of hierarchical human organizations is the core of any change.
It isn’t enough for the CEO to say gender balance is important once a year in a management conference. Nor even to set draconian and highly publicized targets. In the gender balance analyses we do for companies at my consulting firm, it’s immediately obvious whether a leadership team credibly priorities balance – or doesn’t. The answer lies in the easily-measured perception of their colleagues. And on that simple reality hinges the success of any gender balancing efforts.
Until leaders are convinced that gender balance is a strategic lever for the business and become authentically and articulately convincing to their colleagues about why that is, balance remains a politically correct sideline. Many leadership teams say they are convinced and aligned about the need for balance. And yet, if you survey their colleagues, as we routinely do, they often aren’t buying their leaders’ commitment (see graph showing how individual men and women compare their own belief in the strategic importance of balance compared to what they perceive to be their Executive Team’s opinion).
I recently ran with the European leadership team of a tech company. The CEO assured me that the team bought the “business case” and didn’t need to discuss it anymore. All they needed to know was how to implement it. But as soon as the conversation started, there was a long and heated debate about the urgency, relevance, and priority of gender balance. It took the team time to align around a shared vision of what the issue, the goal and the drivers were.
After facilitating hundreds of debates among mostly-male leadership teams, I would humbly suggest this is the norm. Top teams need time to align and become skilled at pitching why gender balance is a business imperative. Until they do, their male colleagues don’t and won’t take it seriously.
Reframe: The CEO and their team consistently and convincingly drive gender balance as an essential lever to achieving strategic goals and boosting the bottom line.
3. Make balance a management skill, and measure it
The final step is to make balance personal, measurable and accountable. The tipping point? When managers know they will be recognized and rewarded for building balanced teams (and not if they don’t). When every manager is evaluated on their ability to work with 100% of the talent and connect effectively with 100% of the potential customer base. They’ll know when the topic shifts from “no women/men apply for this position/sector” or “no women/men buy this product” to “how can we help this manager build balanced teams and customer bases?” (See this related piece suggesting “if you can’t catch a fish, don’t blame the fish.”)
How to prepare managers for balance? You can approach this as an unconscious bias problem, as many companies do. But this is unnecessarily negative and accusatory. It alienates many of the men companies say they want to engage. As De Bono writes “sexism is rampant, conscious and unconscious. I’m still working on my own.” Some of the research on bias elimination is , like the oft-cited blind auditions that supposedly balanced American orchestras.
北京快3A more effective alternative is to normalize gender balance as a business skill, like many others. Good managers need to become fluent in the other revolutions of our time: technology, sustainability or globalization. In this context, gender balancing becomes a management skill that needs building. Rather than the unnecessarily fraught frame of bias, help build competencies to work effectively across genders.
北京快3Educate managers to become more gender aware. There is an overwhelming mountain of research on gender that needs to be further integrated into management development and business school curriculums. I participated in one of the first efforts to mainstream gender issues into a core business school MBA curriculum (at HEC Business School). More typically, business schools offer executive women’s programs rather than educating their on gender balance. We need to move on from this insistent focus on empowering women by having them learn about gender differences in order to “build their confidence” or better fit into dominant norms.
Invite men into the conversation by educating everyone in gender differences, the way international companies have trained managers in cultural differences. Make men and women more knowledgeable and comfortable about working across these differences, flexing their management styles to their audience and their target customers. Build awareness of the masculine defaults and data that often underlie corporate systems and models – in everything from marketing and product development to recruiting and . Ensure managers are skilled before you make them accountable, otherwise you only get backlash, frustration or both. Meet men (and many women) where they actually are, which is sometimes startlingly unfamiliar with the whole gender thing.
Reframe: Balanced teams and customer bases become the sign of a skilled 21st century manager. Measure balance as a management competency. If they aren’t balancing, skill-up the manager, not the candidate or the customer.
北京快3Engaging men isn’t about getting women to become ever more congratulatory about men who “get it.” Getting men to embrace balance requires leaders skilled at making the link between balance and business. When they buy it, and are skilled at selling it, everyone gets on board.